Moms vs. Dads: Who Does More at Home? Well, It's Not That Simple.

Great Wall Street Journal article this weekend on the age-old argument who-does-more. Well it seems more time wasn't what we were looking for...



Why Mom's Time Is Different From Dad's Time - WSJ.com

Ellen Weinstein

"Several years ago, while observing a parenting group in Minnesota, I was struck by a confession one of the women made to her peers: She didn't really care that her husband did the dishes after dinner. Sure, it was swell of him, and she had friends whose husbands did less. But what she really wanted, at that point in her day, was for her husband to volunteer to put the kids to bed. She would have been glad to sit in the kitchen on her own for a few minutes with the water running and her mind wandering. Another woman chimed in: "Totally. The dishes don't talk back to you."

According to the American Time Use Survey—which asks thousands of Americans annually to chronicle how they spend their days—men and women now work roughly the same number of hours a week (though men work more paid hours, and women more unpaid). Given this balanced ledger, one might guess that all would finally be quiet on the domestic front—that women would finally have stopped wondering how they, rather than their husbands, got suckered into such a heavy load. But they haven't. The question is: Why?"